Daniel Packard - Why you're still not there

up:: Mindvalley University 2022
author:: Daniel Packard

Self-Talk Story

Today: model of understanding that changed my life.

Architecture for understanding to change faster and maybe permanent.

Mechanical engineer.

End goal: consistently calm and happy, and from a deep level not give a shit about what everyone thinks.

Mechanical model is what he built. Full liberation technology.

Wanna know how to escape the hatrix?

Simple models van help uncover incredible thought.

Fragile

Fragile is a symptom.

Personal development awaken the giant within style doesn't get to the cause so it's going to come back.

You're not growing faster because you're working on a symptom instead if a cause.

Anything that's alive has some basic rules that have to be followed. People, aquarium, business, marriage.

If you take care of the basic hygiene of the system, the system will kind of sustain itself.

Accumulated neglect leads to fragility.

Fragility, insecurity, is a symptom of accumulated neglect of yourself.

Ways we should take care of ourselves; my level:

Nobody ever taught you to take care of your inner garden.

Fear

What if fear is a symptom of accumulated neglect?

The most important thing in the world is gone and that's trust.

But what if 10-20 times a day you're being a shitty friend to yourself? You'll lose trust in yourself, feel less safe, and get fear.

That fear is the symptom of you neglecting yourself 100K’s a year.

They called me the boundary sheriff.

Every day I take care of this little garden and that brings results.
In personal development we often blame ourselves instead of being kind to ourselves.

You can change this with little If you're a 5 and thinking about the 10, that's not being very kind to yourself.I didn't believe this was as effective as it is and didn't believe how much it would solve everything.

Implementation

Website Estonia link. We'll apply at inner mechanics lab.