Masculinity

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Young Kings Quote

Young Kings.
Life is harder as a man.
I like it.
Harder brings greater rewards.
There is no better human existence than a high value male.
Top 1% men enjoy the planet more than any 1% woman ever could.
But a low value Male has the worst experience.
Risk vs reward.

Research

Boys lag behind: How teachers’ gender biases affect student achievement - Sci…

I use a combination of blind and non-blind test scores to show that middle school teachers favor girls in their evaluations. This favoritism, estimated as individual teacher effects, has long-term consequences: as measured by their national evaluations three years later, male students make less progress than their female counterparts. On the other hand, girls who benefit from gender bias in math are more likely to select a science track in high school. Without teachers’ bias in favor of girls, the gender gap in choosing a science track would be 12.5% larger in favor of boys.

Jordan Peterson podcast

Teasing between is a trust building activity, invitation to play, and a compliment because you know they can handle the tease.

Women without brothers are much more likely to be raped.

HR: 19 complaints to 1 by women.

Women without manly presence in their life take this teasing as discrimination in the workplace.

Men select the men that women select

Reflection

Sure, here's a self-reflection guide with questions and exercises to help you achieve your personal growth goals:

Self-Reflection Guide

Setting Boundaries

  1. What are my core values and priorities? How can I communicate them more clearly to others?

  2. What are some situations in which I tend to say "yes" when I really want to say "no"? How can I practice saying "no" more often?

  3. What are some situations in which I tend to say "no" when I really want to say "yes"? How can I practice saying "yes" more often?

Self-Care

  1. What are some activities that make me feel happy, energized, and fulfilled? How can I incorporate these activities into my daily or weekly routine?

  2. What are some activities that drain my energy or leave me feeling stressed or anxious? How can I reduce or eliminate these activities from my life?

  3. How can I prioritize self-care as an essential part of my life, rather than something that gets pushed aside when I'm busy or stressed?

Self-Compassion

  1. How do I typically talk to myself when I make mistakes or face setbacks? Is this self-talk kind and compassionate, or critical and harsh?

  2. What are some ways I can practice self-compassion on a regular basis, such as through positive self-talk or self-care practices?

  3. How can I reframe setbacks as opportunities for growth and learning, rather than as evidence of my worth or abilities?

Seeking Feedback

  1. Who are some trusted sources in my life who can provide honest and constructive feedback? How can I approach them and ask for their feedback in a non-threatening way?

  2. How can I use feedback as a tool for growth and self-improvement, rather than as a measure of my worth or abilities?

  3. What are some ways I can incorporate feedback into my daily or weekly routine, such as through reflection or goal-setting exercises?

Expanding Your Social Circle

  1. What are some environments or activities that align with my values and interests, and where I'm likely to meet like-minded people?

  2. What are some limiting beliefs or fears that may be holding me back from connecting with new people or trying new experiences?

  3. How can I approach social events with a mindset of curiosity and openness, rather than fear or anxiety?

Conclusion

Remember that personal growth is a lifelong journey, and it's important to approach it with kindness, curiosity, and an open mind. By setting clear boundaries, prioritizing self-care, practicing self-compassion, seeking feedback, and expanding your social circle, you can become the best version of yourself and attract the type of partner and experiences that you desire.

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